Some thoughts on psychotherapy, after a workshop.
Non-practice
Should you play the lottery? Should you watch sports?
I told you before how you should play the lottery:
Now the question comes – should you or should you not play the lottery?
One of the best single ideas I’ve seen – how to write a school manual?
Ben Bernanke is the current Chairman of the Federal Reserve, the central bank of the United States.
He co-authored a book which I currently read:
“I don’t do change”
There’s a movie which I like a lot and express one thing: “I don’t do change”. Essence of life – one doesn’t do change. It may inspire it, provoke it, ignite it. Not actually do it. “We cannot do great things on this Earth, only small things with great love.” – Mother TERESA (Mother Teresa quotes; Mother Teresa – Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia) It’s an important distinction: change, great things, huge accomplishments take a lot of things. But what I can do is small things. With love, as mother TERESA puts it.
The warranty (extended or not) for a product is not required
You may look at this and tell me I’m wrong; why would I buy a camera from another country, with difficulties in returning it, and, possibly, with a smaller time-frame for warranty than in Romania (one year vs. two years)? The answer is simple – I don’t “believe” in warranties; sure, if you ask me, give me not 2 years, but 200 years of warranty; but, the thing is, if I am to pay more for warranty of a product, I would not do it; I have been using digital devices all my life; rarely, if ever, did I had to use my warranty; even in cases where I needed warranty, most of the time its warranty-free (let’s say, I drop a product in water); I rarely needed warranty for a product.
When you buy IT things, should you do research or not?
The answer is – it depends:
- I think that when buying certain items, you should do research (monitors – research; video camera – research; hard drives, power source, media player, motherboard, processor, video card – research) if you’re not a professional / expert in that field.
- On the other hand, there are items which you should definitely check out yourself (mouse, keyboard).
- At other items, you may do research or buy by checking things yourself – head phones; loud speakers; computer case (perhaps monitor&video cameras, if you’re a professional working with graphics);
When “the best” is not enough
Let’s see this quote from Wikipedia (Gottlieb DAIMLER – Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia – Mercedes-Benz International):
Gottlieb Daimler’s motto was Das Beste oder nichts (“The best or nothing at all”; “Nothing but the best”).
Is “the best” enough? I’d dare to say no.
… and your latest trick
Sebastian GHIȚĂ said (2011.09.27 “Etica in afaceri – renteaza sa fii bun?” / “Ethics in business – does it pay off to be good?”, Central University Library of Bucharest (BCU) – Get a result now!) that he used “shortcuts” to get rich.
Elements of a successful team (by Jim BAGNOLA)
At a recent conference (Jim BAGNOLA: “Leading Teams: Managing Success”, The Leadership Tour (2011.11.25, Bucharest, Crystal Palace Ballrooms) – Get a result now!), Jim BAGNOLA (see Jim BAGNOLA – the best trainer I’ve seen – Get a result now!) said the elements of a successful team are: Preparation; Cooperation; Communication; Luck; Execution. Also, you should operate in a team as if it were an emergency. (an emergency asks for no individual responsibility, it’s either success or not) Finally, there should be a shift from being different into making a difference.
Fail; fast
I’ve recently seen a project of four weeks; good / bad? I don’t know; I do have some ideas on how to make it better.