On repetition

Michael Coyer - 2020 Summer Garden-158

“Repetition is the mother of learning, the father of action, which makes it the architect of accomplishment.” ― Zig Ziglar

Note – on the article below, most of the things are from the perspective of a novice, who wishes to clarify things for himself. These should not be treated as expert knowledge.

The thing with repetition is that it’s required on more levels.

Sure, in an enumeration you tend to remember the first item and, to a lesser degree, the last one.

If you wish to memorize something, repeating might help. You need to recall the information in different ways, though – you can summarize information, make an essay, create your own question-and-answers tests, teach someone something about the information you want to memorize.

On another hand, even “brute” repetition works. Just going through the same information over and over will help you remember things.

But how about other aspects of your life? Other than memorizing things, if you want to enforce a habit, going through the same habit a few times will help reinforce it. Do the same thing for 30 days, and you’re more likely to turn that into a habit.

If you want to change your mind, it might help going deep, really turning an issue upside-down.

But it might also help if you go through the process again and again. Instead of doing, how I did it, in one session, for a day or two, just writing for hours at a time, you could go through the process a few minutes each day.

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Why do I tend to forget things?

Kurt Stocker - Vergissmeinnicht

I think of a lot of things, lots of things pass through my mind. Thus, I forget things.

I don’t consider it a big problem, just a little annoying.

Also, this has implications on long-term vs. short-term goals. I tend to focus a lot on short-term things, even though I would like to give more emphasis to long-term priorities.

Sometimes, it’s as if I have no history with person/brand X.

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One less evil person

Enara Hernandez Manrique - Self portrait

There’s a quote:

— Leşii sunt! striga tanarul ce venise de curand şi pre care l-am auzit vorbind; şi-au schimbat drumul şi vin aici…
— La porţi, flacai! zise batranul. Încuieţi-le şi gramadiţi bolovani pe ziduri. Aşezaţi-va toţi pe la metereze. Sa nu zica leahul c-au intrat într-o cetate romaneasca ca într-o ţarina pustie.
— Dar noi suntem numai nouasprezece şi asta-i o oaste întreaga, observa unul; cum se…
— Taci mucosule! îl curma batranul. Te temi ca-i peri? Mare paguba! Un mişel mai puţin.
Vanatorul astfel înfruntat se trase ruşinat şi se sui pe ziduri.

(Sobieski si romanii | | e-povesti.ro)

which says, basically, that if you care too much for your life you will not be able to do good things.

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It takes time, it’s not that bad, it will be better

iezalel williams - Fascinating Mushroom IMG_4667-001

One thing occurs a lot when talking about Romania:

  • “We’re at a poor level, everything is bad, it’s no hope”.

I think the counter-arguments are these:

  • It takes time. We advanced a lot from 1990 to 2000, from 2000 to 2010, and from 2010 to 2020. Compare Romania in 1990 to Romania in 2020 and there is a difference. A huge difference, I’d say.
  • It’s not that bad. We compare ourselves frequently to the most advanced nations, but we’re not that bad in the overall view of the world.
  • It will be better, as time goes by. I’m confident that we’re on a growing wave.

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Fear of the unknown

Christian Kortum - Into the unknown

When I was young, I wanted to know a lot about everything.

I had a (sort of) computer when I was around 8 (1990/1991), and after a while, I started writing code.

When I had a real PC (1997), I started figuring things out. I’ve done some mistakes, I crashed the computer a few times, but after a while, I knew some things.

At school, while I didn’t like all the subjects from the curriculum, I felt there was nothing I couldn’t learn if I wanted to.

Fast forward to today, and the realm of unknown things got so big, that it’s a bit frightening.

Sure, I can learn things, but it takes so much time, in some areas, there’s so much to learn, and, in some fields, the knowledge evolves so fast, that I feel overwhelmed at some point.

The solution? Right now, all I can think of is “Pretend you have it all covered”. Act as if you can learn, you can keep up, you do know some things. Pretend, and the fake piece of clothing will fit you well.

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“The world’s more interesting with you in it.”

Helen Haden - A touch of magic

There’s a problem:

Nicolae Steinhardt:

În camerele din închisori — pentru că acolo e violent amplificată, exacerbată — am înțeles cât de mizerabilă e situația noastră în lume: prin simpla noastră existență deranjăm pe alții.

N-avem încotro. Se cuvine să înțelegem că orice am face și oricât ne-am strădui, tot supărăm. Singura soluție e resemnarea. Ce putem face? Să tăcem, să tăcem. Să nu facem răul, și nici binele cu sila. Dar și trecând, tăcând, tot nemulțumim. Odată pentru totdeauna se cade să ne băgăm bine în minte: deranjăm doar pentru că suntem prezenți. Și să nu ne oprim aici: mai trebuie să recunoaștem că și ei ne deranjează pe noi! Gând înfiorător: Căci nu suntem mai buni ca ceilalți, tot în aceeași oală ne aflăm și fierbem înăbușit.

Absurdul e unul din parametrii condiției omenești.

Ieșim din obezi prin dragostea de Hristos, cale ocolită, dar sigură către iubirea de aproapele — și îndurarea prezenței lui.

And a solution:

In the (perfect) movie adaptation, Hannibal calls Clarice on the phone, and he says it just a little differently: “The world’s more interesting with you in it.”

I think about this line all the time in our contemporary era.

The world’s more interesting with you in it – Austin Kleon

Yes, you may annoy some people just by being on this Earth.

The solution? Think of it this way – the world can be more interesting due to this.

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Evaluating the competition

Jam Willem Doormembal - Two mandarines

It may look like the natural thing to do – in order to be creative, you should avoid seeing what others are doing.

If you really want to create something original, it may seem, you need to ignore the footsteps of your predecessors.

I’m 50-50 with this. I’m not sure of a 100% solution.

On one hand, it’s good to see what others have done before you, so you can improve on it, and not come up with a strange solution. If you don’t know what others have done prior to you, you risk doing a similar piece of work or coming up with something which feels out of place.

On another hand, if you want to be totally creative, it might help you not knowing what others have done. This solution is not applicable to agencies, where you need to know what others have created, so you don’t go into copying other people’s work.

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Boy meets world

Melusina Parkin - Worlds 3

There’s a time in someone’s life when the young person meets the world.

You get to understand better some things in your life.

So, while in early childhood you’re very happy, at some point you get to understand some things.

The age can vary dramatically, there are some children who are forced to work at a very young age.

The thing is, while this process is a necessary step to adapt to the realities of the world, I don’t view it as a pleasant one.

From my experience, it was actually very hard and harsh, and the thing is life after that moment wasn’t ever the same.

If I were to pick, I’d make this transition as further away as possible.

Later edit: On another hand, this helped me grow. It wasn’t pleasant, but I was able to better face the world at a later stage in my life.

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