I don’t like telling harsh truths.
It’s like this (I don’t know the source):
“I tried being optimistic. Once. I failed”.
Similarly, on the rare occasions when I tried telling the truth, I tend to upset people.
32 Then you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.” John 8:32 NIV
Yes, f you have dilemmas, express them, do not dwell on uncertainty.
But do expect burning some bridges and losing some close friends with this.