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Fuckup Nights guests will share valuable and vulnerable lessons for career and life (August 21, 2025 – BISM headquarters – 99 Dacia Boulevard)
Tickets are available on iabilet.ro.
„In leadership, acknowledging failure with honesty and responsibility is not a weakness, but a form of strength” – Gerke Witteveen, CEO NN Pensii. Fuckup Nights guests will share valuable and vulnerable lessons for career and life
Gerke Witteveen – CEO of NN Pensii, Radu Nemeș – co-founder of ONV Law, and Delia Necula – entrepreneur and strategic consultant, are the speakers at the 26th edition of Fuckup Nights Bucharest, organized by DiFine PR.
- The 26th edition will take place on August 21, at 6 p.m., at the BISM headquarters on 99 Dacia Boulevard.
- The three speakers will share their difficult professional experiences, which taught them to view failure as a learning tool, for two hours.
- In the last decade, failure has become a subject of academic research and public debate;
- London Business School study: 53% of adults in the UK admit that fear of failure prevents them from starting a business.
Bucharest, July 31st 2025: Gerke Witteveen – CEO of NN Pensii, Radu Nemeș – lawyer and co-founder of ONV Law, and Delia Necula – entrepreneur and sales professor, will take to the stage at the 26th edition of Fuckup Nights Bucharest (FUN) to talk about their moments of professional failure and how these contributed to their career development, as well as on a personal level.
The event will take place on August 21, at the Bucharest International School of Management (BISM), on Dacia Boulevard no. 99, starting at 6:00 p.m.
Tickets are available on iabilet.ro.
To create is to live twice. – Albert Camus
“To create is to live twice.” – Albert Camus
Love is never wasted, / For its value does not rest upon reciprocity. – C. S. Lewis
“Love is never wasted,
For its value does not rest upon reciprocity.” – C. S. Lewis
A priest with grace
Rabbi Bunam used to tell young men who came to him for the first time the story of Rabbi Eisik, son of Rabbi Yekel in Cracow. After many years of great poverty which had never shaken his faith in God, he dreamed someone bade him look for a treasure in Prague, under the bridge which leads to the king’s palace. When the dream recurred a third time, Rabbi Eisik prepared for the journey and set out for Prague. But the bridge was guarded day and night and he did not dare to start digging. Nevertheless he went to the bridge every morning and kept walking around it until evening.
Finally the captain of the guards, who had been watching him, asked in a kindly way whether he was looking for something or waiting for somebody. Rabbi Eisik told him of the dream which had brought him here from a faraway country. The captain laughed: “And so to please the dream, you poor fellow wore out your shoes to come here! As for having faith in dreams, if I had had it, I should have had to get going when a dream once told me to go to Cracow and dig for treasure under the stove in the room of a Jew—Eisik, son of Yekel, that was the name! Eisik, son of Yekel! I can just imagine what it would be like, how I should have to try every house over there, where one half of the Jews are named Eisik,and the other Yekel!” And he laughed again. Rabbi Eisik bowed, traveled home, dug up the treasure from under the stove, and built the House of Prayer which is called “Reb Eisik’s Shul.”
People would go to the end of the world to find a priest with grace. In Orthodoxy, some known monasteries, or Mount Athos.
How about finding a priest with divine power right close to your home, at the church closest to you?
I don’t think you need to travel the world to find a priest with grace.
“Objects in the mirror are closer than they appear”. So are priests with grace.
Bucharest International Jazz Competition 2025 – București – Capitala jazz-ului mondial
Începutul lunii iulie aduce la București seri fierbinți de vară pe acorduri de jazz autentic. Pe 4 iulie a debutat ediția cu numărul 19 a Bucharest International Jazz Competition. În 2025, în Semifinală au fost selectate trupe din 14 țări: Italia, Japonia, Statele Unite ale Americii, Norvegia, Israel, Germania, Indonezia, Marea Britanie, Ungaria, Olanda, Elveția, Franța, Polonia și China.
Placebos
Sometimes, people (and I am part of “people”) get upset for various reasons. (Up-Set Set-Up – Blog de Olivian Breda)
What’s the solution? Using tricks to get out of the upsetting period.
One trick I use is listening to music.
Another one – be social.
Another one – try to do things.
Another one – get responsibilities.
If I’m busy living, if my brain is moved into other situations by listening to music, then why not do this? And do this often?
Life’s coaching solution
More than 10 years ago, in October 18, 2007, at the Howard Johnson Hotel in Bucharest, HR Club organized a conference at which I’ve first seen Nigel Risner. His talk was about “How to Create IMPACT as an HR Partner”.
At some point, he asked for volunteers for a task which anyone should have volunteered to (be in front of people, be applauded). He picked the fastest person to raise his hand, and then asked a curious question to a participant – “Why didn’t you raise your hand?”. And the answer came “He was faster than me.”, to which Nigel replied “So, it’s his fault?” (I wrote about this previously on the blog).
There’s one more thing – at the event, people were sitting on chairs. He said something like, “OK, try to get to the highest height. Do your best. Give all you can to do it.” People complied. Then he said, “Now do it more”. And people did it more. Question – The request was clear the first time. Why the need to specify “do it more”? Initially, people, including myself, didn’t do it as often. (I’m not 100% sure it was at this event, but I think so)
I see things like this all around me: 1. People blame others, not taking accountability. 2. When people work, they don’t work as much as they could.
Of course, I also do this.
And I consider this to be life’s coaching solution.
Always, always follow-up
I see this quite often – people forget to follow-up.
Do I do this myself? Yes. I try to correct this, though.
There are little reasons not do to a follow-up.
Like & Share
There are sometimes some contests like these: “join our newsletter for a chance to win X”.
The thing is, you could join just to get a prize, without reading the newsletter itself.
The other thing is, the contest organizers likely are aware of this.
It’s a “you’re fooling me, but I will fool you more, but I know you are aware that we are fooling ourselves”.
“I know that you know”.
Game of “knows”.
We know people don’t read, but still organize the contest.