In a podcast/netcast I listened to recently (INDISCUTABIL #9 – Gelu Duminică | Rasism, mentori si empatie – YouTube), Gelu Duminică said something in the lines of:
“În teoria prejudecății există un moment care se numește ancorare (adică «Ce văd eu în tine?»). […] Fiecare dintre noi are foarte multe identități. (eu – n.O.) Nu am doar o identitate. […] Sunt etnic rom, sunt român, sunt sociolog, sunt gras, sunt chelios, sunt bucureștean, sunt copil, sunt … etc., etc. Deci – am foarte multe identități, da? Rasismul este în momentul în care îl ancorezi pe celălalt doar într-o identitate și, indiferent ce face el, se exprimă doar prin identitatea aia.”
Racism has a limited view of the world, focusing on the negative.
What happens if, like I tend to do, focus only on one quality?
What if I reduce one person not to a thing of qualities a person has, but to a single one?
Or, even worse, what if I, instead of valuing persons based on an intrinsic quality – “they exist” -, focus on actions and characteristics?
It’s now that I realize that a very limited view of a person, even if it’s meant to be a look on the positive side, can have negative aspects.
Because you can look at the situation like this – if I value a person on one quality only, I do two things at the same time:
- I ignore all the other persons. It’s that person and no one else.
- I ignore all the other qualities of other persons.
People tend to do so when falling in love. You love one person for some things and ignore all the other persons.
You love your family more than other persons in the world.
You have a circle of friends for which you care more.
This doesn’t make things right, even if it’s for positive reasons.
I don’t have a solution.
Anyone who loves their father or mother more than me is not worthy of me; anyone who loves their son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me. Whoever does not take up their cross and follow me is not worthy of me. Whoever finds their life will lose it, and whoever loses their life for my sake will find it. (Matthew 10:37-39 niv – “Anyone who loves their father or – Bible Gateway)
As a possible solution:
“Everyone you meet is fighting a battle you know nothing about. Be kind. Always.” ― Brad Meltzer
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