What would you do if you met a person you fell in love with, but there’s a catch – the person doesn’t love you back?
There’s a saying that:
“All is fair in love and war” – John Lyly’s Euphues: The Anatomy of Wit
If you insist, you would say something like “Oh, but you are wrong, you didn’t get the situation properly, let me explain things to you”.
I prefer a different approach – consider that the person thinks properly, there is no fault in the person’s logic, and do not insist. Avoid insisting, pushing things, and trying to make things work. Get the message and put the other person, like you say you already do, on the first rank. Adjust the situation to her perspective, don’t force your view on the world.
