There’s a quote that argues, „Nice guys finish last.”
In a nutshell, when applied to the romantic field, there are two types of connections:
- Other than sex, where nice guys do fine.
- Sex, where nice guys might not be that attractive.
And, the quote argues, nice guys can’t get into a „good” relationship due to their being too nice.
First, I would doubt right from the start the concept of nice. You might be weak, you might not be aggressive, but you also might not be nice. This is a question to be posed, but not in this article.
Then, considering, yes, a nice person might not be attractive sexually.
In this case, I would separate the women into those who care about this thing and those who aren’t that interested in this aspect.
As a personal preference, I would look for women who like nice guys more than others. From other people’s stories, I hear they might be in lower numbers. I don’t care that much about that.
“I wouldn’t want to belong to a club that would have me as a member” ― Groucho Marx
(in my case, this is the opposite situation)